ENVELOPE
Envelope must be presented at the start of our encounter. Please place the envelope on the bathroom counter. If we are meeting in a public place, you may put it inside a gift bag, book, or greeting card.
LATENESS
Life can get busy, and I am happy to accommodate a 15-minute grace period. Please let me know if you are stuck in traffic, or running late. Lateness that is more than 30 minutes with no communication will be treated as no-show.
HYGIENE
Good hygiene makes a gentleman extra charming. A quick shower is mandatory when you arrive, and please come neatly groomed. Mouthwash will be prepared.
ALCOHOL
I do not consume alcohol when meeting a gentleman for the first time, though you may consume alcohol if you wish. If we’ve met before, I’m happy to share some light alcohol.
SCREENING
Every gentleman must pass screening before meeting me in person. This is a necessary step to ensure 1. you are not someone I know 2. you are not underage 3. you are not a police/border agent/hold criminal records 4. you are actually the person I will be meeting. I do not consider what I do as just a “job” and do not hold any made-up “persona”. Therefore I am extremely careful and cautious with who I meet. For us both to fully enjoy our encounters, mutual trust is a must. I believe I have found the equilibrium of my safety and your privacy by offering two methods below, plus social date option. Therefore, screening terms are non-negotiable. If you disagree with it, please simply move on, we are not a good fit. Below are the two methods of screening, pick the one that you understand.
Method 1
I require two submissions from the following:
ID
Driver’s License
Passport
Government ID
** you may blur everything except your photo, your name, and your age **
Employment Verification
LinkedIn profile with 200+ connection and a profile picture
Work badge
Selfie
A front-facing selfie that I can match with your ID or LinkedIn
**Provider Reference**
I no longer accept provider references.
Two submissions should be one each from two different categories, for example, ID + Provider Reference, or ID + Employment. I do not accept two IDs, or two employment verifications.
For first-time gentlemen, an ID plus proof of employment will be adequate.
Method 2/身份验证
支付宝口令红包（这不是转账）888 - 需提供口令+姓氏并附上正脸自拍（艺术照，p图，戴口罩都不适用）
不可以找口令代发。必要情况下我会拿支付宝姓氏去核对酒店订单，如发现姓氏对不上则不见面拉黑并门槛作废不退。注意：888 仅用于第一次身份验证，定金另算。如果你不知道什么是口令红包，请发邮件问我，我会教你。
Other methods
Depending on your initial introduction other methods of screening may be used. I would only share these methods case by case in private.
If the information given is not enough for screening purposes, I will reach out to you for more.
PRIVACY
Rest assured that I handle all communication myself and your information will be deleted once the screening process is complete. Please NEVER discuss my details publicly or to others.
PHONE CALL
You may schedule a phone call with me prior to meeting, to arrange logistics or see if we vibe. Rates vary case by case. I do not offer video call.
DISCRETION
For privacy reasons, at this time I do not offer duo or see couples. NDAs are welcomed, though keep in mind they are never legally binding if one party on the contract uses a working name. I will never share my name unless you have given me your name and pass screening. If you are okay with sharing your name first, I am happy to sign NDAs.
REVIEWS
I hope you value my privacy as much as I value yours. Since I live a full life outside of my time as Lily, I have a no review policy except for one website. Please ask me before giving a review. Mutual respect is the foundation to a perfect date and long-lasting friendship.
SELFIES
I do not show my face.
DEPOSITS AND CANCELLATIONS
Sometimes I might fly across the ocean to make our date happen. Deposits are necessary to guard against no-shows. Please read through my deposit requirements and cancellation policy thoroughly on my consideration page before inquiring. I do not negotiate these terms.
REFERENCE
I no longer provide references. Opinions are always subjective and It is up to each individual to determine whether a suitor is safe or not. If I happen to receive any reference emails I will no longer respond.
DISCLAIMER
Every photo and copy on this website and my social media accounts (linked in the footer of this website) belongs to me. They are my original contents. I do not own any other persona, website, or social media. If you see other website or account with my photos or copy, please report, let me know, and DO NOT engage.